I know that you are feeling uncertain about many things right now, but know that you have always been a firm believer that things always happen for a reason due to the deep faith you have in God. You have always felt that He has completely stayed by your side, even when life becomes a complete struggle. You have always known you have the strength to handle anything life throws your way because you know God wouldn't put you through something He knew you couldn't handle. You have also always allowed yourself to learn a lesson from those hardships.
Yes, you have much hurt to deal with and heal from, but you will get there sweetie. You will once again feel like the sun came out just for you in the morning. You will at some point smile because you actually want to and not have to force it. The pain will slowly start to diminish ... you know that it already is starting to, but you have to make the effort to let go of the anger, the resentment and not hold a grudge.
Those who hurt you still deserve to be loved and deserve kindness. Don't let the ugliness you feel overpower you. Pray for a heart of forgiveness, of tenderness and compassion. Because no good will come from wishing ill onto others. As hard as it may be, wish happiness and goodness to those you find hard to love. That will only help you prosper and better you.
I know you feel like your heart can't bear any more disappointment, another heartbreak, but hang in there darling. One day your heart will be loved, adored and protected, as it should be, by someone who will see the preciousness of having the honor of calling it theirs.
You have gone through some unsettling relationships and that's okay. You saw something great with those people, you at one point saw potential in something and you hoped it would work. The beauty about it is that you continue to keep your heart open to love, even after love has failed you.
You continue to have faith that love exists for you. You know in your soul that you can't give up on love, because when you do find it everything you've been through will have never mattered. All the broken pieces of your heart will be healed and held together by a love that has been promised to you. A love that will fulfill you completely.
So continue to be patient, you gorgeous girl. Continue to open your heart to new experiences and new people. But first and foremost continue working on you, on loving you, on bettering you. Remember that there is nothing wrong with you, even if people make you feel like you are the problem or the reason things do not work out. It's not true ... as long as you know deep in your soul that you are always genuine, and you love with all your heart and being and that you are truly giving 100 percent in your relationships and in life ... you are doing great.
Keep hanging in there, because you are loved and the best is yet to come.
"The Lord will fight for you, you need only to be still."
— Exodus 14:14
Love,
Yourself
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